Hi Wildcat, I don't think there's a women's center around but I'll try looking into it. I made some calls tonight and hopefully I'll be able to find something soon. I've decided that I don't want to stay here once he leaves. I need a change myself and hopefully I'll be able to have one. Thanks for the suggestion.
Hi Faryal, Thank you for your kind words. I think my son will know that we both love him but the fact that his dad doesn't really love his mom is going to be hard for him. Dad not being around as much is going to be hard, but dad hasn't really been here much anyway. I'm going to talk to my counselor on Thursday and I plan to discuss ways to help him with this.
And last but not least Rose, I've been in this limbo for months and you're right it's horrible. I don't remember if I wrote this or not but he has gotten a house not far from here and is going to be moving out but he is taking his time. Yes, I do think he's having some sort of midlife crisis and I do think he needs counseling but in his mind I don't know that he believes he does. I'm the defective one. I know I need counseling and am doing just that. If we divorce I know at some point he will regret the decisions he's making now, but by then he may be too late to save us. I've decided not to hold my breath.