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17 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Mighty March Mellows, Help!

Hey fellow March Mellows, Well it has been alittle over a week now , doing pretty good the patches are sure helping. Do any of you have any suggestions on this.... I feel not myself, not angry at all but I just don;t laugh or joke around much anymore? feel like I am a bore to all, even my husband, at imes I feel like he may want someone else who is more fun like I used to be, I talked to him last night and he said he will go through what ever it takes with me, is so proud of me, and I will get all my feelings back in time, he quit 37 years ago, said he much reather go through this with me then for me to be a smoker! I just want the old me back but as a non smoker!!!!!! and I will never become a smoker again, NEVER! I have no problem with the junkie thinkin that if I smoked again I would be the old me, DON'T want that at all just hard to get me back as a non smoker! there are a few times when I think my husbands life has not changed at all still on his merry way, has a glass of wine here and there, which I can't as that would be a big trigger! and a weight gain, a no no,I keep telling my brain that you are not going to rule me, I will be happy and I am so proud that I am not smoking! well any suggestions would be much appreciated. Thanks to you all, this is such a great group!!!!!!! Many prayers and hugs sent to you all!!!!! Bobbi [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/27/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 9 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 284 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $22.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 9 [B]Mins:[/B] 26 [B]Seconds:[/B] 10
17 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Anyone never a weight gain when quit??????????

is there anyone there who has lost weight or never gained when quitting smoking? the last time I quit I gained 33 lbs. in 6 mo., weighrf 133 lbs. on a person only 5' 3" I sure didn't look good now for the past years of smoking I have kept my weight at 110 and have loved it, have been quit for 11 days and so far have lost 1 lb. but scares me in time I will start gaining like I did before, I eat very healthy, and do excerise, have to go to my sisters for two weeks to help as she had by-pass surgery, when I get back will be almost the first of May and my husband and I are joining a gym at the hosp. Oh I hope there are some who have never gained weight, I was a very, very large child and teen, so now have an obecession with my weight. HELP! Thanks, Bobbi [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/27/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 11 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 330 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $27.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 55 [B]Seconds:[/B] 55
17 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
March Mellows

Hi March Mellows, Well tomorrow is my big Q day 3/27, I am excited but also scared! I even woke up in the night several times to go in the garage and smoke, don't smoke in my home, and I never get up to smoke!!!! I will be using the patches. Anyone here quit with them? Well wish me luck. Much luck and many prayers to all of my fellow March Mellows! Bobbi
17 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
4 more days until I quit...am i ready?

Shar, You can do it I did the same thing, finally made up my mind and I quit 3/27. and now here it is 1 mo. 4 days 38 min. 29 seconds. and I feel great!!!!! am on the patch 21 mg. next Mon. go on the 14 mg. Still have really bad times but they do pass! We are here for you and this is the best group ever! Bobbbi [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/27/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 36 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,105 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $90 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 10 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 23
17 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
MARCH MELLOWS CHECK IN

Hey March Mellows, Another weekend coming up and I will be coming to my 5 weeks! Yeah!!!!!! I feel good! and I will share some of my feel good with all, hope it helps! Hugs and prayers. Bobbi [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/27/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 37 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,139 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $92.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 9 [B]Seconds:[/B] 59
17 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Glad to meet you all

Heather, I also smoked for 50 years, quit 3/27. I am soooo proud and happy really hasn't been as bad as I thought it would be, of course I have had very bad times but some how make it through, sure has helped having this board to support me, this is the BEST sight there is, have been on others are ok but oh here is the greatest!!!!!! couldn't have done it without all my buddies here. Stay with us we will try to help all we can. I am on the patch. I send you lots of hugs and prayers. Bobbi [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/27/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 38 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,140 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $95 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 26
17 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
becauseIcan

I too was soooooo scared, would have times that I thought I would quit breathing if I quit, but guess what it has been 1 mo. 6 days 1 min. 10 seconds. My how time flys when your having fun! lol You can do it. Hugs and Prayers Bobbi [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/27/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 38 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,140 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $95 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 14 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
17 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
withdrawing pretty bad

Hi Bobbi here, I am sending you alot of prayers and Hugs, you can do it! what aid are you using? I smoked 50 years, am on the patch. breathe deep, try to sleep I really found that helped. I am here if anything I can do to help my thoughts are with you! Bobbi [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/27/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 38 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,140 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $95 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 15 [B]Seconds:[/B] 12
17 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
DO YOU WANNA DANCE,DO YOU WANNA PARTY !!!!

Count me in I really love to dance! Bobbi [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/27/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 39 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,170 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $97.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 51 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
17 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I am quitting

Dee, Welcome to our journey......It does get hard at times but it is so worth it. I am on the patch, have alittle over a mo of being a nonsmoker(non smoker doesn't that just send chills down your spine to say that) you will be able to soon also. I smoked 50 years and never wanted to quit but one day I said yes I do want to quit , researched for about three mo. and now here I am a nonsmoker for alittle over a mo. WOW I feel good! welcome, anything I can do to help let me know. Want to tell you the people on this board are the BEST EVER! Hugs and prayers Bobbi [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/27/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 39 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,171 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $97.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 58 [B]Seconds:[/B] 37