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Back to Sqaure One

Hi Deborah,
 
It may feel like you're back to square one, but I think you're further ahead.  You have made great use of the resources you have at the Panic Center - reading through the information on the site, reaching out when you need help and offering up kind words of advice and support to other members.
Remember to give yourself credit!
Your situation will get better, but as Sunny said, take it one day - one step at a time.  You're climbing the mountain right now, but you're not alone.  You have people cheering you on, lending a hand and showing you the way.
So glad to hear the hope in your message tonight.
Vincenza, Health Educator
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Challenging Worry - Worry Time

Members,

There are a number of CBT techniques that are commonly used to help people challenge worry including: thought records, thought stopping, worry time, challenging the value of worry, problem solving, experiments to increase intolerance of uncertainty and cognitive exposure. Let’s take a look at them one at a time:

Worry Time: Worry time is another simple technique that many people find extremely helpful. If you find that you worry all of the time or nearly all of the time, try setting aside a  regular time each day to do all of your worrying and then do ALL of your worrying during your Worry Time. So, for, example, if you decide that your Worry time is between 7:00 pm and 7:30 pm, then you have to do all of your worrying at that time. You set aside that time to worry each day and during that time you do nothing but worry. Your job during Worry Time is to worry as hard as you can. When Worry Time is over you get up and get back to doing something else. Distraction usually works to help people stop their worry time. If you find yourself worrying outside of your Worry Time your job is to delay or “put off” the worry until Worry Time. It is not as if you are not going to worry at all. You are just delaying the worry until later. Don’t make a list of things to worry about during Worry Time. The basic rule is if the worry is important you will remember it at Worry Time. If it isn’t important, you will forget it. Try this technique for a week and see how it works for you.

Many people who try this technique and actually set aside Worry Time each day find it very helpful.

Does this strategy work for you?

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New to the group and faced with ongoing panic attacks

Hi Amethyst,
 
You can find information on Core Beliefs in the Toolbox section our 'sister site':  The Depression Center.
You will find a link from the Evolution Health website - www.evolutionhs.com
 
Nat77,
I want to acknowledge you for the exposure work you've been doing.  You've challenged one of your worst triggers which is human contact.  It does take a long time to understand and work through your anxieties, yet it seems as though you have been able to achieve a lot in a relatively short time.  You've proven to yourself that it can be done and you are on the right track by taking it one step at a time, moving in the right direction!  Way to go!
 
 

Vincenza, Health Educator
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Melanie from India

Hi Melanie,
 
Welcome, we're glad to have you join us on these forums.  CBT can be profoundly effective for challenging negative thoughts.  If you put in the time and effort it takes to work through the program, you will see changes within yourself, mentally & emotionally. 
Have you worked with other therapists other than Dr. Chulani?  What have you found effective in helping improve your condition?  How can we best help you through this program?
As Sunny said, feel free to post often.  I find the more you communicate with members on the site, the better and more supported you feel.

Vincenza, Health Educator
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1st downturn in a week

Hi David, Sunny & Davit,  

Just wanted to wish you a great weekend, full of inner sunshine 
 
and David, I would also like to see pics of the turtles!
 
Vincenza, Health Educator
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Hi Red,
 
So nice to hear from you.  Let us know how you feel going through the sessions in the DC center.  Have you made any new realizations about yourself?  your emotions?
How do you typically deal with feelings of anger?
 
Davit, 
Fall colours must be stunning where you are - would love to see some pics!  
 
Be well,


Vincenza, Health Educator
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Back to Sqaure One

Great suggestion Davit,
 
Deb, Thinking of you & wishing you a pleasant day today! 

Vincenza, Health Educator
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Hi Davit,
 
What does your therapist mean by relearning by treating the trauma?  Did she give you any more guidance on this?
 


Vincenza, Health Educator
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1st downturn in a week

Wrestler,
Thanks for posting the picture.  Totally looks like she is smiling for the camera!
Your turtles must help ground you when you need it most.  Nature has an amazing way of speaking to 
us if we keep open hearts and minds...

Vincenza, Health Educator
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Challenging the Value of Worry

Members,

There are a number of CBT techniques that are commonly used to help people challenge worry including: thought records, thought stopping, worry time, challenging the value of worry, problem solving, experiments to increase intolerance of uncertainty and cognitive exposure. Let’s take a look at another technique:

Challenging the Value of Worry.
Many people who worry find it difficult to challenge their worry because of their basic beliefs about worrying. As we discussed before, worrying a little about a problem makes some sense because it can lead to the identification of a problem and problem solving. On the other hand, worrying more than a little usually doesn’t get you any further ahead. Worrying that doesn’t lead pretty quickly to problem solving doesn’t get you anywhere.

Unfortunately, many people who worry have beliefs about worrying that encourage them to worry more, rather than less. For example, if you have beliefs such as “Worrying makes me a better person,” Worrying helps me to solve problems,” “Worrying helps me do a better job,” and “Worrying about something makes it more likely that it will happen,” you may want to spend some time challenging those beliefs about worry and what worry does for you.

Does this strategy work for you?