Hey everybody. I’ve just been lurking in the background for a while, getting lost in my thoughts and all the crap going on. I’ve been having a hard time dealing with a lot of stuff here. I haven’t had a panic attack in about two weeks now. Yay! But the stress seems overwhelming sometimes. My doctor is trying to find a counselor for me to talk to.
I’ve been fighting with my boss trying to get my hours back. The manager at my job decided (without ever talking to me) that I had an attitude problem, and chopped my hours in half. And since finances are a lot of my stress, this skyrocketed. I finally had to explain to them both everything that I’m dealing with, and that it’s not work I have a problem with – it’s life in general!
As well as all that crap, my bf and I have been dealing with a custody case for his son. This has been going on for over a year now, and it’s been really stressful and it hurts a lot too. Now pile on all the stress working for my brother, and you have one mess of a person.
My bf doesn’t quite understand what I’m feeling either. He’s getting frustrated and telling me it’s all in my head, I’m a hypochondriac, and I just want attention. He says he’s never seen anybody with so many problems. That cuts me deep; I need his support now more than ever!
I’ve decided to stir the s**t pot and I wrote my brother a letter. I haven’t sent it yet, but I told him basically I’m not hiding behind secrets and pretend lives anymore. I need to move on, and he needs to know where I stand. I’ve left the door open to him to reconcile if he wants. He’s family whether I like it or not. And I want peace. I’ve also told him not to come to my workplace. I can’t handle it. It’s too hard to try and be happy and deal with customers when I want to throw up and spaz out.
I also got my bf to read the letter I wrote to my brother, so he understands a bit more of my past, and why my head is so messed up. Some days I just want to hide in a hole and never come out. Too bad real life gets in the way of that. Anyways, that’s my vent for the day. Thanks for listening.
~Corinna