That is so sweet Crystal, thank you, I dont know if I can find msn I am not that good on the computer, my email address is debih200@juno.com I have a cell phone with free minutes on the weekends and after 8 pm at night. I was going to write sooner, I was sitting outside and my neighbour Tracey came over, she is a nurse and we were talking I was asking her a few questions and my husband came out and changed the subject and would not let us finish our conversation, I am so angry and hurt he said "Dont air our dirty laundrey to the neighbors" I was certainly not doing that, she take Zoloft and Xanax and is very nice, I was asking her about perimenopause and can it cause delayed peroids and cramping, I do NOT interupt my husband when he is talking to friends, I cannot believe he did this! Again my email is debih200@juno.com I was going to post it for Grace, Lauren and Gina they like you have been so great, I could always call you on my free minutes if you wanted, I do not want to bother you through, my email and cell phone my husband is not involved with. Did I make a mistake talking to my neighbor? I certainly would not discuss this with the mailman or anything. Looking forward to hearing from you Crystal, thank you for your kind words and compassion. Thanks, Debbie.