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5 years ago 0 8 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Lindsey, Remember we are the ones changing our behavior and he will never REALLY understand what we are going thru unless he's been through it too. He can only educate himself and Ashley has done a good job of describing what I am feeling right now on day 2. But I know it will pass and get easier with time and support from the people who care on this site.
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Hi Lindsay2108,

This program does discuss many of the withdrawal symptoms you will be experiencing and mood is a big one. The forums here also has a lot of personal stories from people who have quit. Here is some information on why it is so hard for people to quit smoking:

Quitting smoking is hard for at least five reasons.

1.) Nicotine dependence – Like heroin, nicotine is one of the most addictive drugs in the world. The nicotine in tobacco causes dependence by going to the brain quickly (within six seconds) and by, at first, giving a feeling of alertness and increased performance. Generally, people fail to remember the toxic signs of smoking they had when they first smoked: the dizziness and nausea. Eventually the dizziness and nauseas goes away and is replaced by physical tolerance. This means that the smoker needs more and more cigarettes to feel the same effects.

2.) Withdrawal effects – After not smoking for about an hour-and-a-half, withdrawal (or a craving) kicks in. This can include anxiety, difficulty concentrating, irritability, and restlessness. The desire for nicotine and the discomfort of withdrawal is what makes quitting so difficult. If you are a smoker or a former smoker, you will know or remember some of the great lengths taken when you were out of cigarettes. This may include rummaging around the house or car for change, standing outside in really bad weather for a few puffs, not being able to sit through a movie, going to great lengths to get a smoke… This is addiction and withdrawal from nicotine can, at first, be extremely difficult.

3.) Psychological dependence – Smoking becomes a crutch that smokers use to deal with stress and anxiety. The more a person smokes under these conditions, the less other ways of coping are used. Cigarettes quickly replace the other less harmful coping behaviors that a person would normally use. This often leads to an increase in smoking.

4.) Habit – Smoking becomes a habit because it’s practiced many times a day. For example, pack-a-day smokers lift cigarettes to their mouth and inhale about 109,500 times a year. Also, smoking is linked by habit to other behaviors such as drinking coffee, work breaks, drinking alcohol, and social situations.

5.) Pleasure - Many smokers get a great deal of pleasure from the habit. They enjoy the taste, smell and feel of cigarettes. Although directly related to habit, smoking a cigarette can be a very personal, relaxing occasion. This makes it difficult for some smokers to even think about quitting.


I hope this helps!

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What are some good links for my partner to read, to help him better understand what I'm going to be experiencing? I feel like every time i try to quit, we just fight so badly and I give up. He is supportive of me quitting, he wants me to very badly. He just doesn't seem to understand that my emotions will be high, that there are actual withdrawl symptoms, and he takes my depression and anxiety personally. 
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