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12 years ago 0 4027 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I'm becoming concerned about mom, and wonder if i'm going through what parents do with their newborns?
 
It must be difficult for parents to want to know what's going on, to the point of having the electronic monitors?
 
How have parents coped?
12 years ago 0 1665 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Hugs:  Yes, worrying in my sleep, ugh.  That's why I try to turn it into a visualization before sleep.  Try and do it in my mind as successfully as I can.  Hopefully that's turning negative energy (worrying) into a positive energy.
 
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I found I was worrying during my sleep, to my surprise.  I was trying to rehearse some important knowledge that I had to remember for work, since I was a technical subject matter expert.  It was nightmarish, since I'd forgotten something important, and had to be reminded.
 
For me, worrying is a rehearsal or "patch" for my failings.  I think I mentioned that "repetition is the motor of learning", which sunny* mentioned was a quote of a Jesuit leader named St Ignatius of Loyola(a favourite of mine incidently!!!).
 
Right now, I'm upset about trying to plan some fall courses, but I've been unwell, and the courses have all filled, as I struggle with my procrastination/perfectionism in the context of just feeling poorly, without knowing the cause.
12 years ago 0 619 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I tend to worry most when I am uncertain about the future. For example, I worry about being in the same dead end job for the rest of my life.
 
Sometimes I worry about past situations. For example, if I behaved differently in my previous jobs maybe today I would be in a better position.
 
On the last situation there is a connection between my past and my worries. I see now that I am focused only in my job which is not good for me. I have more life to live.
12 years ago 0 1853 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Members,

From an evolutionary perspective, worrying makes sense. Being able to worry, at least a little, allows us to anticipate and plan for the future and cope with stress. On the other hand, too much worry isn’t healthy either. If you spend a lot of your day worrying, it probably doesn’t do you a lot of good. Worrying about problems a little can lead to problem solving and coping, worrying more than a little doesn’t usually lead to much good. So why do some people worry more than others?

There are a number of factors that contribute to excessive worry including genes and the environment. Worry also tends to happen when things are uncertain.

When do you worry most? Do you think your upbringing has shaped the degree of worry you experience?



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