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Panic Free Since Aug. 25th 2010 Update From Shari


12 years ago 0 1853 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Shari,
 
What a great positive outlook on what obviously was a very frightening situation beyond anyone's control!
So thankful to hear no one was harmed.  My sister happens to be on a cruise in the Bahamas right now -
not a great time of year to go(!) but heard they are ok despite having their boat completely diverted.
What crazy adventures that may induce fear & anxiety, but way to stay strong and record your gratitude
in light of the event.
Very inspiring!


Vincenza, Health Educator
12 years ago 0 1071 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Still panic free after a 5.9 earthquake!  Today at 2 pm we had a severe earthquake and I was home alone.  My dogs ran out of the house to the fenced back yard and I heard a distant rumble.  I thought, maybe a dump truck or a train, and then the whole house shook violently and the windows rattled.  My heart sank and I knew it was an earthquake.  I tried to go outside, but fell and couldn't get out, because the ground was moving underneath me.  It fell like one of those fun house floors.  I stood up in the doorway and held on.  The grumble and rumble was deafening, it felt like an elevator drop and I thought my house was going to fall into a sink hole.  I looked to my left and my 130 yr.old house was slanting diagonally to the right and then slanted diagonally to the left.  The whole time it was making a terrible creaking noise.  I honestly thought the house was going to crash down on top of me like a house of cards.  I remember wanting it to just stop, but it kept going and I wondered how much the house would take before it would come down.  I realized there was nothing I could do.  I had no control of the situation.  At one moment, I thought, this was it, I'm going to die.  But, I stood firm despite the motion sickness, dizziness and disorientation of the whole event.  It seemed like it went on forever although I know it was only minutes.  Talk about exposure!  I kind of accepted the situation and calmed myself down and told myself it would be alright, it eventually will stop and it did.  My dogs ran inside barking and my cat was on the screened in front porch running back and forth, I think she felt unable to escape, but calmed as soon as she was sure it stopped.  Everything had fallen off the shelves, water bowls for pets were spilled, there were two cracks in the foundation of the house, but we all survived unharmed.  A few years ago I survived an F-5 tornado that hit 3 houses down and wiped out our entire town.  And, now Hurricane Irene is on it's way up.  I am not afraid, although I would like to move :)  We can't afford it, and the housing market is bad, so here's to more exposure.  I have a lot to be thankful for and a lot to add to my gratitude book.
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Thank you Vincenza!  I love your name, by the way.  I'm Italian; third generation from Naples, Italy :)

Shari


12 years ago 0 1853 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Shari,
 
Earlier you wrote 3 very powerful words:  Never give up! 
To that I want to add:  It's never too late!  
Your spirit is inspiring and regardless of the path you choose, you will be successful!

Vincenza, Health Educator
12 years ago 0 1071 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thanks Debi, I wonder what finance career you have :)  Thanks ~m for those great ideas and also thanks to Eleveno.  Right now I'm researching jobs.  I'll keep you updated.

Shari
12 years ago 0 619 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hello Shari. It was a pleasure reading your story. It seems you learned very well how to cope with anxiety and you are an inspiration to all of us.
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Shari... where I live, the Labor Department was a tremendous help in giving me focus and help after my first marriage ended.  As a "displaced homemaker" they provided career counseling, training, and even some financial assistance.  If your area doesn't have anything like that you still can get some direction by taking online aptitude tests which can help you find a career that suits your temperament... I found those tests very helpful, allowing me to see the possibilities and that I actually had certain strengths and proclivities for good jobs... helped me get over feeling totally worthless :/  Good for you for setting a new direction for yourself! Hang in there... the going can be tough... but it is soooooo worth it.  Keep us posted!
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Thank you Red!

Your friend,
12 years ago 0 252 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Shari,
 
Good for you...for continuing to search for a way to make your dreams come true....
 
Red...
12 years ago 0 1071 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thank you Anerol !!!  I really appreciate you.  Thanks for being so supportive.  I really need that right now :)

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