Hi Jason
First of all welcome to the forums. You've definately come to a wonderful place to share your thoughts and be supported. It's an amazing place. I'm sorry to hear you are struggling so much right now. It does get better as you've heard already. Scared as you may be right now, it is not forever.
Jason, you are NOT alone in what you are going through. I can relate to you on many different levels but mostly on the "terrible thoughts". That was the worst part of my anxiety / obsessive thinking. I too went through a stage when I thought I would hurt my children... An absolutely terrifying experience ...but they are ONLY THOUGHTS. Thoughts that like you I knew I would NEVER act on. It was all about losing control...and the only way to prove you've lost control is to do something so irrational and terrible... The THOUGHT is the bad thing here. A person who is caring and loving etc. can't possibly think these things..or so I thought. I couldn't wrap myself around why they would even come into my head... There must be something wrong with me to even have thought such things. My life is full of so many wonderful things - why can't I just think wonderful thoughts...
The truth is Jason everyone has these thoughts at one time or another but those of us with Panic disorder or Obsessions etc. process it differently and it becomes a HUGE issue...and it snowballs... and the cycle can spin beyond our control at times. Fear becomes overwhelming and consuming... that's where you are now.
You've taken the first step though in looking for assistance. You've shown TREMENDOUS courage by even sharing your story which I'm sure was hard to do.
For me my thoughts have leaped all over the board. Once I stopped worrying about hurting my children it became something else... until I slowly started my road to wellness. For me, medication has helped tremendously. I think maybe you've had a bad reaction and unfortunately that can sometimes create these awful things... but you will find something that works for you.
Therapy is great too but if financially it's a burden there are a lot of free options or assisted options out there. You just have to be persistent. You are your greatest tool, and you may need to reach outside your box to get the ball rolling. Another courageous step but you can do it!! Sounds like your Mom is very supportive so you're lucky there too. She can help you find what you need.
Be patient and forgiving of yourself. This journey has many ups and downs but there is light at the end of the tunnel. We're all here for you Jason ... Keep posting!!
Dazed