Kez,
You are right, it is a good feeling to be clear headed in the morning! Today was tougher than the last 2. I think the toughness came with too much free time and today was a day off from working out for me. I was also wondering if I would sleep tonight or would it be a night of unrest. Whatever happens will happen, my body has to get used to going to sleep without alcohol.
I wish you luck with your family on Saturday. Hopefully you will have some good tips that can be shared for I know that obstacle is around the corner for me!
Dave, once again thank you for your response to my last post here and on the other thread. My mind racing is a BIG problem with my sleep and writing things down just doesn’t cut it! I know my body will eventually adapt, there could be worse things I have to suffer through. At least the evenings of being AF are going OK and the “scared” feelings of being AF that evening are not present for now.
It has been many years since I have been AF for 3 nights. Tomorrow will be very weird for me. Since I have been drinking daily (around 13 years) I have not been AF 4 days in a row. I know I will make it, now I am wondering what my thought will be Friday, the day that I said I would THINK about having a drink. Only time will tell!
Have a good everyone!
Lynn
Good morning Kez,
You are right, giving your body a break allows it to take care of things it has been neglecting because of the alcohol. As for you situation on Saturday, I don’t know what kind of advice I can give because I have not encountered that situation myself but know that I will. I have friends that drink (sometimes a lot) and on some occasions just simply say, “No not today.” I think that will be my approach as well, saying something like giving my body a break or just taking a break for a time.
I totally get what you said about being productive. I am a teacher so I am flexible in my work time for a few months. Earlier I was sitting outside enjoying my coffee, listening to the “outside”, planning my day. Yesterday was AF Day 2 and today WILL be AF Day 3 (Dave, did you notice the positive EMPHASIS there?? LOL) As I was enjoying the morning I noticed that first of all I felt like being outside and secondly, I did not have to wait to feel better to get going and did not have to arrange my day around my start time of drinking. Wonderful feeling to be free.
Take pride in the steps that you are taking and keep taking it one step at a time. Those are the only ones you can control.
I hope everyone has a wonderful day!
Lynn
Hi Kez
this site is so great it really helps. As far as triggers go i know how hard they are . things i have done in the past to help me not drink at family fuctions and duck out early were saying i was on antibiotics people dont push as hard on offering you drinks . I am not sure how it is in your fam but mine they sometimes push a but they dont know that i actually have a problem or they think its normal as they drink alot themselves , not sure but either way i always said something like antibiotics or work the next day or something ...i hate lying and am bad at it but i hate drinking and acting such a fool and feeling the worst afterwards.
hope yu have a great day :)