I am not winning this battle. I am very used to winning and when people who are supporting me and want me to accomplish something and I don't do it I feel disappointment.
Thanks! But believe me, I have been round and round with this enemy, as everyone on this site. I don't think you can put a measure on each persons battle, meaning each persons battle is unique to that person. I am beginning to realize that each person has a limit. For some, drinking 1 drink brings devastation while others can drink 10 without any outward harm. For each, the thought of reducing the amount or cutting it out is the same for each. Reading through the post I see that each persons goal has to be their own, they must decide what is best for their family and themselves.
Again, welcome to the site and hope you find some needed information. You will certainly find the support!
Things are going well. Sticking to my goals and thinking of strengthing them. Taking the steps of being AF some days has given me the confidence to continue. I know for me, it was the uncertainty of how the night would be, etc. that keep from taking that first step. As the clock approaches that magic time for me I have found myself actually asking myself if I really want to drink or is it just habitat. Interesting the answer I have sometimes.
Great attitude Clemonsdoc. Having a positive frame of mind helps immensely. I did respond your other topic.
Zoey, how goes day 3? The first few can feel like a bit of a wreck and somewhat chaotic. Honestly, I really had to learn to laugh at myself at times. Try not to take yourself to seriously. There are some great berating techniques listed on the Well-being topics.
Lynn, how are you doing today?
Jewel, you rock! Keep working on that yellow calendar.
Just as an fyi, make lots of notes to yourself in the calendar. It really helps down the road when you can look back on them.
You will find a lot of support on this site. As you begin to communicate you will probably find yourself saying "that is exactly the way I feel." Zoey and I have done that a few times. It is comforting to know that there is someone else that is facing the same struggles in their life. We both have found Jewel as an inspiration and look to a time we can achieve our goals.
Thanks so much Zoey. Home for lunch then back to work. My wife's real anxious today as my stepsons are heading back to Canada for the summer. Problem today is they are all going to my parents for a dinner so when I get home tonight I can have drinks without anyone knowing and just relax. My goal is to stop hiding everything and just be able to enjoy wine or drinks with my wife at a reasonable level. How's your day?
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