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14 years ago 0 1562 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
The ability to overcome this disease depends on the extent to which we have abused the body. Unfortunately most of go well past the stage where only a spiritual solution is the only hope.
 
This is from the book called Alcoholics Anonymous:

But what about the real alcoholic? He may start off as a moderate drinker; he may or may not become a continuous hard drinker; but at some stage of his drinking career he begins to lose all control of his liquor consumption, once he starts to drink.

Here is a fellow who has been puzzling you, especially in his lack of control. He does absurd, incredible, tragic things while drinking. He is a real Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. He is seldom mildly intoxicated. He is always more or less insanely drunk. His disposition while drinking resembles his normal nature but little. He may be one of the finest fellows in the world. Yet let him drink for a day, and he frequently becomes disgustingly, and even dangerously anti-social. He has a positive genius for getting tight at exactly the wrong moment, particularly when some important decision must be made or engagement kept. He is often perfectly sensible and well balanced concerning everything except liquor, but in that respect he is incredibly dishonest and selfish. He often possesses special abilities, skills, and aptitudes, and has a promising career ahead of him. He uses his gifts to build up a bright outlook for his family and himself, and then pulls the structure down on his head by a senseless series of sprees. He is the fellow who goes to bed so intoxicated he ought to sleep the clock around. Yet early next morning he searches madly for the bottle he misplace the night before. If he can afford it, he may have liquor concealed all over his house to be certain no one gets his entire supply away from him to throw down the wastepipe. As matters grow worse, he begins to use a combination of high-powered sedative and liquor to quiet his nerves so he can go to work. Then comes the day when he simply cannot make it and gets drunk all over again. Perhaps he goes to a doctor who gives him morphine or some sedative with which to taper off. Then he begins to appear at hospitals and sanitariums.

 

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I have been successful at eliminating alcohol from my life and it has changed quite a bit since.
I no longer get in weird fights with my boyfriend.
I no longer do embarassing things in public.
I no longer waste days being hungover and tired.
 
It is really nice to not have to go through the above situations.
 
RAY
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I exactly know how you feel. its the obsession of the mind that leads us to the first drink and then there is something called the phenomenon of craving that keeps up drinking and we get drunk. We always think of taking 1 or 2 drinks. But once we put those, we are off to the races.  But the problem with drunks is there for the mind. We need to have a spiritual awakening. A psychic change Dr. Silkworth calls it.
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I am sure you are right, I am trying to find the spiritual, but the alcohol keeps winning.  So I guess I have to find another way.  God I really hate this. I just want to be a normal drinking person, but deep inside I know that is not to be.
 
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If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking, you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic. If that be the case, you may be suffering from an illness which only a spiritual experience will conquer.
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My life would be different:
I would not wake up hung over
I would not worry about when I could have my next drink
I would not lie to friends and family
I would not worry about my health
 
So that is the grasp of the alcohol just keep doing and doing!!  I only hope one day I can get free!!
14 years ago 0 11214 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Members,
 
If alcohol was not in your life how would your life be different?
 
Ashley, Health Educator

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