Gina, I really dont know how we get them to understand because to them, they are looking from the outside and what they see is FINE. OKAY. Whats the problem??!!
They do not live in that dark little crack corner we get ourselves into. I WISH I could see and feel through my husbands eyes that all is OKAY!!!! Without actually taking them to counseling with you, and having a doctor explain what you are going through, I do not know they will ever understand.