Hi GIna, I returned from Church and I feel more peaceful, I prayed for you, for me and everyone on this fantastic sight! I know what you are going through I get "take a pill" all the time, I swear our husbands sound identical. Mine has calmed down somewhat, thanks be to God, I am trying to be calmer too, but you know how hard that is. I want you to have a great Easter, its my favorite holiday, is it raining there? I know you are in Florida too. My shoulder is aching and I got all upset because I know that is a symptom of an ectopoic pregnancy, why why why do I still think there is a chance of preg after 3 negative tests! Probably because I have NEVER EVER skipped, I am 16 days late today, I feel awful, queasy sore breasts {but they have been swollen since August so that does not concern me} very tired, achy, all the symptoms of pregnancy, my appt is Wed then I worry "what if its ovarian or cervical cancer" I hate when I get these feelings, they get locked in my brain and I can't get them our, I hope everyone is right and its just the beginning of the pre-menopause, I hope its nothing fatal because I have my son to care for. Church helped me somewhat, I am coloring Easter eggs with my son tonight, but I will talk to you whenever you want, I am up very late so I am here for you, ignore your husband, I know easier said than done, I have put alot of distance with mine, I figure if he's not gonna help I will be darned if he's gonna hurt. Write back when you can. Debbie.