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What was your biggest fear?


15 years ago 0 967 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
We can't give up EVERYTHING Mike, so your fine...I just don't want to see you joing AA next.
 
Kelly

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/6/2007
Smoke-Free Days: 259
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 7,770
Amount Saved: $971.25
Life Gained:
Days: 21 Hrs: 3 Mins: 4 Seconds: 22

15 years ago 0 901 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
mine was dreading not being able to smoke when drinking cold beer at the sports bar.
 
but i made through , plus i cut down on the beer , a little that is.
 
mike / astrofan


My Milage:

My Quit Date: 3/12/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 162
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 4,860
Amount Saved: $1,458.00
Life Gained:
Days: 26 Hrs: 12 Mins: 17 Seconds: 34

15 years ago 0 52 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I'm with Tresa about fearing failure...
 
More concretely I feared a blow up with the ex. That has always been a huge trigger for me that I can't control. Well this week brought a huge blow up--far worse than anything I could have imagined.
 
So far so good, but this has been the hardest I've had to fight since the first couple of days. I even found myself walking to the store to buy a pack and just have one. Luckily the walk lasted longer than the crave...

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 7/26/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 26
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 780
Amount Saved: $130.00
Life Gained:
Days: 3 Hrs: 22 Mins: 36 Seconds: 8

15 years ago 0 5009 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
The oncoming weekend / holiday (not smoking).
New quitters? Fear njot - this soon passes!

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 2/13/2006
Smoke-Free Days: 920
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 27,600
Amount Saved: �7,245.00
Life Gained:
Days: 149 Hrs: 23 Mins: 53 Seconds: 14

15 years ago 0 967 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
My biggest fear was the quit itself. I was afraid of everything, the biggest of all Life.  How will I do or cope with anything without a cig?  I really thought that I would never enjoy my life or anything in it again.  HOW STUPID!!  It took some time, but life is great.. I had to struggle just like Tresa, but when you learn you can beat it, it is so much easier.  I wish I would have done it sooner.
 
((hugs)) Kelly

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/6/2007
Smoke-Free Days: 259
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 7,770
Amount Saved: $971.25
Life Gained:
Days: 21 Hrs: 2 Mins: 49 Seconds: 23

15 years ago 0 375 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
My biggest fear is that I won't figure out what to replace smoking with...... there's tons of options, but that little addict in me likes to say things like "boring!  None of that is as good as a cigarette!"  And wonderful chit chat like that.  So as I go through these horrible withdrawals, I'm making an ongoing list of things to combat that very real fear.
Deborah

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 8/18/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 2
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 48
Amount Saved: $14.40
Life Gained:
Days: 0 Hrs: 7 Mins: 11 Seconds: 38

15 years ago 0 71 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I also will have to agree with Tresa is that I can't make this quit work again. Maybe that's why I have to prolong it. DJ
15 years ago 0 515 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I have to agree with Tresa - my biggest fear was failing - so many other areas of my life I have failed and a lot of times I let myself think that I am a failure.

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 1/7/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 226
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 4,068
Amount Saved: $1,586.52
Life Gained:
Days: 20 Hrs: 11 Mins: 27 Seconds: 1

15 years ago 0 1153 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Kylisa,
 
Great thread topic! We have to face so many of our fears when quitting, it is part of the challenge. It's a great feeling of accomplishment to realize that you've faced your fears and won!
 
Congratulations!
 
Members, chime in and share your biggest fears.


Brenna, Bilingual Health Educator

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