I just found this board today. I am a 34 year old male that just this past weekend had to have my wife (and three young children in tow) bring me to the ER because I thought I was having a nervous breakdown.
I have been fighting chronic back pain for about 7 months from some injury in Sept 03 I cannot pinpoint and just when I thought it was gone, it came back with new symptoms. During pysical therapy for the back I found out I had a hernia and am recovering from that surgery three weeks ago. When I returned to work two weeks ago my back problems started up worse than ever and I started to "loose it." It started with waking up "in a panic" several times a night with that sick to your stomach jolt of adreneline. It has gotten worse and worse. Repeated attempts in the past two weeks to get better answers from my Drs about what's going on with my back have gotten me more stressed since they are dismissing anything "serious." They gave me Ambien to help me sleep and it doesn't work well, after two or three hours Im back to my panic awakenings. I dream constantly when I do sleep and I cannot concentrate at all. At the ER yesterday they sent me home with a 'script for 5mg of Valium three times a day and although I slept a bit better and am not AS ready to breakdown, I do not feel "well" either.
I have always been an "anxious person" and had one similar episode about 10 years ago when I though there was something life threatening with me pysically. It took counseling for a few months and the realization that I was "OK" to break the cycle. My new wife stuck by me and we made it together. Other than that I have controlled my anxiety naturally and have led an active happy life.
But now, things are changed in that I also have the three most precious children in the world and I fear I am going to loose them to this, and my wife as well as she is already starting to feel affected by the strain. I fear I will lose their love, their respect, etc and they are my world. The Drs ask if Im feeling suicidal to which I answer emphatically "NO! - Im feeling that I want to get better!!" But if I lost my family over this, YES, I would not want to live. My job is suffering, and I am also depressed. Depressed than a year ago on a beautiful spring day like today I would work al