Jan, while you have IM running (I assume the new one needs to be running), find a post by someone you want on your buddy list, then click the "Add to Buddy List" button under their name.
Shevie
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/23/2005
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 561
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 11,226
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $2131.8
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 104 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 31 [B]Seconds:[/B] 39