Tom,
See in the left hand margin where it says "add to buddy list"? Click there when you have messenger open and then right click anywhere on the SSC messenger and click "refresh buddies" to add someone to your buddy list. You don't have to be on their buddy list to send them a message... they just have to be on yours. Hope that helps.
Crave the Quit!
Butterfly [IMG]http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c177/kissnflirt/littlebutterflies.gif[/IMG]
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/28/2005
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 106
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,667
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $349.8
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 7 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 49 [B]Seconds:[/B] 26
