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21 years ago 0 +0 / -0 1062

Hi Jeremy. The fact that people are free to 'not stay' does not mean that when they move on they reject you. They may want something else, or something else than a relationship at this time can offer them. It's ok to mourn a loss. It's ok to celebrate the wonderful things you have to offer. There are other people out there with whom you can have a relationship. Wishing you all the best.

21 years ago 0 +0 / -0 1

I do not know what to say or discuss........now. My heart is so shattered that i can't find the words to descride the pain. I have always loved her , waited for her. Sometimes, i would scream in my heart...."stop....please dun go, Please dun go....cause I love you". Come back........

21 years ago 0 +0 / -0 11

The fact that this discussion is happening shows me that there is hope yet for all of us. We have to try to hold on to whatever thread of hope we can find. For me, the hope I get is in the eyes of my daughter. Unfortunately, she is also the source of my biggest fear. I live every day in the fear that she will develop depression, and it will be all my fault because she got it from my genetics. Always know that none of us are alone. At the very least, we have the support of the others who are experiencing similar feelings and thoughts every day. Best wishes, Mike

21 years ago 0 +0 / -0 26

Thank you for replying novagirl. What you said tells me your also broken-hearted. And I understand totally with what you said about having your heart broke from so many that you trusted. Im at a point in my life to where I think mine will never mend. I wish you all the best. Thanks

21 years ago 0 +0 / -0 5

The Brokenhearted eh? I don't know about the drug induced stupor however some of us just avoid things until it is crashing in all around you and then worry about damage control. I haven't figured out if broken hearts really mend and I haven't figured out if those of us that are sick get any better. The best that I seem to be able to hope for these days is to have a day that goes by without any meltdowns. My heart has been broken so many times by people that I trusted that I don't even know how to function somewhat decently in a relationship. I don't know what will become of us broken hearted wounded spirits. On a good day I pray that it'll work itself out in the end, on a day like today i know that in the end it'll only be me anyway.

21 years ago 0 +0 / -0 12

we the broken hearted just wander around in a chemical induced stupor brought on by a myriad of prescription drugs. We have no personality or feelings but we are controllable. We hope for the future but expect nothing as that is what life has given us so far. We stumble around in a haze and hope that no one else will hurt us. We look at the people around us and wonder what they have that we dont have.

21 years ago 0 +0 / -0 26

I wokeup this morning feeling sad. Im here all alone in my thoughts and thought I would share them with whoever cares to listen to my rambling. I started thinking about all the depressed people in the world. How some will get help for there problem-even those who will get better without meds. But, there are those who dont get help--for many reasons unknown.Some ,dont get the help they need because they are not allowed to express there feelings. Some feel ashamed. And Ive even noticed on this site that there are those who write 1-3 times, and you dont hear from them anymore. It makes me wonder if they got ok,or did they get worse. I wonder about the ones who have given up all together. I know what its like to be all alone--not even to have the support of "so called friends". Right now I have a Dalmation dog who follows me everywhere. Its like she knows what I have been going through. Its pretty amazing seeing how she use to do nothing but show me her teeth. But really, think about it, what really does happen to the broken hearted.

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