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13 years ago 0 72 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Don´t know how to begin...

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I've got 30 yrs recovery behind me - and thanks to PTSD it's been kept green all these years, as if it was yesterday. So, if you need any help, you can ask the Team for my e-mail, if that's allowed and you want to.  It's always an option and an offer.
The last person I helped continually said he'd never get better, this is awful,nothing ever worked before, etc, etc., and I promised him it would change if he did a few simple things (well ok, more than a few). And the promises came true.  He is an amazing new person. Night and day.He feels great now that he's a free man.
But, first things first, you need to be clean to think, so while you're doing your 30 days, look at getting thru one at a time, and then another, and another, and so on.  Before you know it, the fog will lift.
Best Wishes, Andie
13 years ago 0 72 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
WOW! I´m amazed!

I do the bookkeeping for our company.  It had to do with facts, that my husband had misinterpreted, there was no room for discussion. There was no arrogance, name calling, anything like that we don't do that.
In our 4 yrs of marriage we have never had a fight simply because we sit down and discuss how to handle our disagreements.  Business is a little different - we may have 3 arguements a year, but there also we discuss the situation and figure out a way to suit both of us.  Sometimes, though, it is purely facts and figures.  We don't try and say to each other right or wrong.  This was a first out of him, and it flabergasted me since he isn't usually like that.