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12 years ago 0 18 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Samantha,
 
I did read that section on worry last night.  I can relate to a few of the different ones especially the black and white.
 
Thank you,
Baye
12 years ago 0 2606 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hello Baye,
 
I highly recommend checking out session 11 on Worry, there you will find techniques on worry. There is also a Worry Challenge you can undertake which will likely bring some enlightenment into your worrying. 
 
Members, what techniques do you use to relieve worry?
 
 

Samantha, Health Educator
12 years ago 0 18 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Ok I talked to my mom today and told her everything that is going on with me at the moment.  I didn't want to because she is not well and I don't want her to worry.
 
It is funny that you mention There are a number of factors that contribute to excessive worry including genes and the environment.
 
My mother said I come from a family of worriers and depression runs in the family.  My mother was born in 1937, she just told me her father suffered from depression from an early age and that even his wife my grandmother never discussed it.  Went off topic a bit sorry. 
 
As for upbringing when you live in an abusive home.  Father hitting my mother and there is nothing that I could do.  And to be in constant fear because he threatened to kill her or kidnap me.  At 12 years old going out on halloween walking down the street and have a parked car door open with my dad telling me to get in.  I turned around and ran back home.
 
Sometimes I worry more then other times, it has been with me for a long long time.
 
Baye
 
12 years ago 0 1853 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Members,

From an evolutionary perspective, worrying makes sense. Being able to worry, at least a little, allows us to anticipate and plan for the future and cope with stress. On the other hand, too much worry isn’t healthy either. If you spend a lot of your day worrying, it probably doesn’t do you a lot of good. Worrying about problems a little can lead to problem solving and coping, worrying more than a little doesn’t usually lead to much good. So why do some people worry more than others?

There are a number of factors that contribute to excessive worry including genes and the environment. Worry also tends to happen when things are uncertain.

When do you worry most? Do you think your upbringing has shaped the degree of worry you experience?



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