Get the Support You Need

Learn from thousands of users who have made their way through our courses. Need help getting started? Watch this short video.

today's top discussions:

logo

Challenging Worry

Ashley -> Health Educator

2024-04-20 11:42 PM

Depression Community

logo

Hello

Linda Q

2024-04-11 5:06 AM

Anxiety Community

logo

Addiction

Ashley -> Health Educator

2024-04-08 3:54 PM

Managing Drinking Community

logo

New Year's Resolutions

Ashley -> Health Educator

2024-03-25 2:47 AM

Managing Drinking Community

This Month’s Leaders:

Most Supportive

Browse through 411.748 posts in 47.053 threads.

160,501 Members

Please welcome our newest members: Fwcl, anonymeLouise, RDANIELA NICOLE, Lfr, CPADUA

Worry


15 years ago 0 3043 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I've never yelled stop but I have "changed the channels" or at least that is what I call it.  Like turning the remote on the TV, to watch another channel.  I am successful at doing this when I become aware that I am obsessing over something.  For example, I was so worried that I would cry uncontrollably when we met in the judges chambers for my son to adopt his step-daughter.  I was imaging all sorts of things and worrying about how it would interrupt or interfere with things.  When I finally realized I was thinking of nothing but that, I realized I needed to change the channels and accept (gather strength) for whatever happens. I agree it works whether it is "stop" or "changing the channels". 
 
 
 

15 years ago 0 1288 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0

Members,

There are a number of CBT techniques that are commonly used to help people challenge worry including: thought records, thought stopping, worry time, challenging the value of worry, problem solving, experiments to increase intolerance of uncertainty and cognitive exposure. Let’s take a look at them one at a time:

Thought Stopping: Thought stopping is a technique that can be used to stop worry when it is happening. For example, many people who work Monday to Friday start to worry about work (and all of their other problems) on…Sunday night. One worry seems to spiral out of control into worrying about everything. At such a time worrying typically doesn’t help people solve any problems. It just leads to a bad night’s sleep. At times when your worry seems like it is spinning out of control, you can try to use thought stopping to shock yourself out of the process. The basic idea is to startle yourself, so that you get out of the “worry loop” in your head. There are many different ways t do it but the basic idea is to imagine a big “Stop” sign in your mind and yell “Stop!” three times (If it is late at night or there are other people around, you may need to yell into your pillow or just imagine yelling the word). Believe it or not, some people this technique to be extremely helpful. Don’t knock it until you try it.

Does this strategy work for you?   Sylvie, Bilingual Health Educator

Reading this thread: