I just got your very nice post. I live in West Palm Beach Fl. My husband sounds just like yours, in fact a 12 pack is a slow day for him when he is off, then I worry and worry about him driving especially with our son. That is amazing the coincidence about our Mothers, I am so thankful your MOm is alright, I miss mine so much, I think about her every day. I have STILL not started my monthly 2 weeks today, all three tests were negative Gina, I do not understand why I still am afraid of an ectopic pregnacny, Grace and Lauren the other members have been SO kind, they both said even if ectopic it would show up, I have never missed a period {unless I was pregnant} the stomach pain is still bad, I have a GYN appt Wed, scared to go scared not to go, I am so afraid its ovarian cancer or she is going to say "ectopic" I am trying so hard to push these scary thoughts out of my head, I am turning into quite the hypocrondriac, I just pray GOd my fears are unfounded, my little boy needs me, it would destroy him if I died, my husband could never do it alone I know it. Do you feel like you are dying too? do you get awful lower tummy aches? I have been cramping for 3 weeks {even before I missed my period} I fear something is wrong to stop a regular monthly in its track like that, I have been naucous and dizzy, just like early preg! but all 3 tests say negative, I hope they are correct. I hope things are well with you this evening, please write me back and let me know what you think and how you are, I hope your little one is doing good, is she excited about the Easter Bunny? mine is. Thanks, Debbie.