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thanks trish for ur kind words and encouragement, i will take on board on what u said, any advice is helpful advice and im grateful. thanks bern
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Bern, Don't let this keep you in discouraging stage. Document down the things you have achieved in your exposure work, and keep reflecting on them. Your making wonderful progress. Sometimes we feel so good achieving our baby steps, that we set a goal, just bit too high, only to have a setback, and let those negative feelings bring us back down. I know in my exposure therapy, I was doing well on baby steps, but tried to shoot my goal too high one day to expand my comfortable zone too quickly. It didnt work. So I was very bummed out, felt depressed and had negative thoughts of "Am I as far as I can go stage?". But someone listened and said something to me, then it really made sense, I was expecting or trying too skip my baby steps, to a LEAP instead. So I reassured myself of what I had accomplished and remembered baby steps, baby steps. Continued reading as much as could, reinforcing my positive thoughts, and those positive thoughts will prevail more than those negative thoughts. It's great that the trip was going well, until the road home, but you have remember, if your not used to traveling 200 miles away, and are limited to 50 mile radius for example, that you need to increase it gradually. Keep the faith Bern, your doing wonderful !!! Trish
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hi my name is bern and ive been suffering with anxiety/panic attacks for the last 7 months. this weekend just gone i decided to do some more exposure work, im back at work, can get the bus trains and have become more comfortable with my anxiety recently. i went away about 200miles on the train to meet a friend, i arrived and had no problem with the anxiety getting there. on the return journey home , i was shattered, i had incresed anxiety, all the feelings of thinking i was dying, losing control, shaking, and fear of everything around me. i had this lasting all day, i was unable to go to work and just slept all day ( wish these feelings would go) the next day i was ok and attended work with just a few feelings of unreality, still on edge knowing these thoughts are in the back of my mind. i know im in control of my thoughts but it doesnt make it any easier when when u get them. i know i done well with the exposure work and praised myself for it, but i dont want to push myself into a relaspe again. am i doing the right thing by pushing myself and can anynone advise a thought process of driving out those demons in my head (mr negative) i know i got to keep going and facing these fears, and move on but in the back of the head theres always a little voice reminding me it could happen at any time. thank u to all once more and thanks for all ur help and support bern.

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