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ODAAT, Welcome and thanks for sharing. Our thoughts and prayers are with during this rough time and know that we can help. We can walk you through every step of the quit and help guide you. The program, tips and tools can provide you with knowledge and information that will help you push forward on those tough days. As you can see the support group is amazing and they make a difference every day :) Post often and let us help :) Josie, Support Specialist
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I'm very sorry to read your story. This is a good place to come to for support in helping you see this through. Keep reading and keep posting. As you say: One day at a time. Good luck. Gen [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]3/28/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 166 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,656 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �830.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 21 [B]Hrs:[/B] 23 [B]Mins:[/B] 47 [B]Seconds:[/B] 54
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ODAAT, my condolences on your loss Welcome to the SSC You will get lots of support here lynnexx [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]10/24/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 321 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 4,815 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �1,284.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 36 [B]Hrs:[/B] 11 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 48
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16 years ago 0 1093 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
So sorry for your loss, ODAAT. I'm glad you found The SSC. It and the members here will help you change your life. I look forward to hearing more from you. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]8/25/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 16 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 480 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $93.60 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 10 [B]Mins:[/B] 20 [B]Seconds:[/B] 27
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Dear ODAAT - Am so sorry for your loss... My friend, Jessie, passed from lung cancer, she was my lifelong friend, and I made myself a promise to put 'em down. And I did... not one slip, - never looked back, and you can do this too... Make sure to get yourself prepared... do the program here and make sure to stay close to this site and read, read and read more... Blessings sent... Healer [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]3/5/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 553 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 19,355 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $2,571.45 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 73 [B]Hrs:[/B] 6 [B]Mins:[/B] 58 [B]Seconds:[/B] 52
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Hello odaat, Sorry for your loss, Iam sure your cuz was a good person. You loss was surly a bad one no doubt and my thoughts are with you. You must remember, she was an addict like all of us on this site. We to know what she went through. Perhaps not the alcohol, but certainly the nicotine addiction. It is just that, an addiction, like any other iddiction. The only difference is that she lost her fight with her iddiction and we all can learn a very important lesson form this tragedy. There is certainly meaning to her death. Perhaps we can take control of our addictions and we can all fight a little harder next time we feel like reaching for a cig or over induling on alcohol. Her death was certainly a tragedy, but it made us all stop and think about what we are doing and what direction we want our quits to go in. So, yes, there is "meaning". She made me think and I dont even know her. If we all take control of our situations and our lives in general, we will all succeed. But we have to continue to realize that it is an iddiction that we created and that we allowed it to control us. Now we have to turn the tables and we can do that by taking back our lives so this tragedy does not happen to us and our loved ones. So how do we do this? We learn about our iddictions weather it be nicotine or alcohol. We slowly learn how to curve our cravings until they are gone or until we can control them. We learn how to except our challengs and we learn that these iddiction can be contained or distroyed. We have to use all the tool that we can get our hands on and we MUST KEEP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE!!! We cant whine or become babys, we have to stay strong and alert. That means we have to change our life styles and even the people we keep company with if need be. This/these addictions that we created are lodged in our brains and only we can get rid of them. But we have to never stop trying and we have to fight it like no other fight we have ever been in. Along the way, it will get easier and eaiser unti one day, you will look back and say, " dam, I did it" So get to work people! Keep God in your hearts and in your thoughts also! Jaset [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]11/17/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 296 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,920 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1,628.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 45 [B]Hrs:[/B] 16 [B]Mins:[/B] 34 [B]Seconds:[/B] 6
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ODAAT, welcome to the site. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. You have come to the right place if you're serious about getting help to quit smoking. Please do the program on the home page & make sure you are prepared. It makes all the difference. You will find all the help & support you need here. Congratulations on making the decision to live nicotine-free. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]5/13/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 119 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,380 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1,309.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 11 [B]Hrs:[/B] 23 [B]Mins:[/B] 55 [B]Seconds:[/B] 50
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Odaat, I am so sorry to hear about your Cousing. Yes, it is smart to give a meaning to your cousin death.... [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]8/8/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 32 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,024 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $68.20 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 3 [B]Hrs:[/B] 20 [B]Mins:[/B] 40 [B]Seconds:[/B] 54
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So sorry to hear of your loss. Yours was a moving and strong statement. Stick close to this site and people on it. They are an incredible source of strength. If I can help in any way, please let me know. All the best to you & and God Bless.
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This week I lost my cousin, 48 years old, to complications from smoking and alcoholism. I have been very upset by this and it has really hit home with me as I am 46 and am not prepared to die. I was very angry with God for taking this person out of my life. I know I can't bring her back but some people in my support group have suggested I bring "meaning" to her death somehow. I was thinking about quitting in a few days and lo and behold, the day I was planning to quit turned out to be her funeral. In memory of her, I am vowing to take charge of my own life and put these cigarettes away forever, just one day at a time. Her death can not be in vain. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]9/9/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 0 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 0 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $0.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 2 [B]Mins:[/B] 15 [B]Seconds:[/B] 5
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