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thanks EVERYONE alohakeia were able to get together on IM and I am going to reward myself for not smoking with a great hot lavender bath and go to bed.. too many trigers today.. my sisters pool & joining my husband on the deck tonight was just a lttle to close to home for me.. Somehow I will grow from this experience.. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]8/25/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 9 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 180 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $27.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 1 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 49
16 years ago 0 3541 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Doodles, there is a post about bashing your husband with a skillet, that might be helpful to you! You are 9 days a non-smoker, my friend, Your husband is what he is but YOU are a non-smoker and all you have to do to stay that way is not smoke! Get out your reasons for quitting, doodles. Write in your journal about how his smoking makes you feel & how much you really don't want to feel that way. Then write down how you DO want to feel. I bet you want to feel proud of your quit, confident that you can do it, happy that after 9 days you have already given yourself the gift of a sense of smell, improved sense of taste, greater lung capacity and more restful sleep. Others have said it, it's your quit. It is harder with someone else around who is not quit but we don't only do easy things, doodles, & you can do this hard thing. You have been doing it for 9 days. All you have to do is keep doing what you're doing. Or, get a really heavy skillet... [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]5/13/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 113 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,260 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1,243.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 11 [B]Hrs:[/B] 9 [B]Mins:[/B] 23 [B]Seconds:[/B] 51
16 years ago 0 1093 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Smoking takes your hard earned money and destroys your health. This addiction steals your soul. We all deserve better! � [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]8/25/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 9 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 270 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $52.65 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 59
16 years ago 0 177 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Doodles, You are doing so good! DO NOT GIVE UP. This is for you, nobody else. If you are craving and have a smoke, you will just need another one 20 minutes later. (Someone else said on the board and it has REALLY helped me!) 9 days! 216 hours! 12960 minutes! Keep it up , we have faith in you! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]9/1/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 2 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 30 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $18.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 5 [B]Mins:[/B] 40 [B]Seconds:[/B] 55
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16 years ago 0 1093 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Doodles - I have added you to im also. Are you feeling better??? You know you don't need to smoke. You haven't smoked for days now..9 even. Delay. Distract. Drink water. Read. Remeber how well you've done already. It's a mind game at this point and you DON'T WANT TO SMOKE. You're not gonna cuz you don't wanna. im me if I can help, please. Will be up for hours yet. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]8/25/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 9 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 270 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $52.65 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 44
16 years ago 0 710 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey doodles I have added you to my IM if you would like to chat sometime just put me on your buddie list and IM me. Hope you are hanging in, NOPE I do think it would be much harder if my husband smoked, so thankful he doesn't, I am sure it would be hard but you can do it!!!!!! hugs,prayers, pixie dust Bobbi [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]3/27/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 160 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 4,800 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $400.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 23 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 53 [B]Seconds:[/B] 6
16 years ago 0 3207 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
ok, good! let us know if that doesnt work, ok?? [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]3/22/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 165 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 6,600 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1,122.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 23 [B]Hrs:[/B] 2 [B]Mins:[/B] 38 [B]Seconds:[/B] 29
16 years ago 0 695 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
alohakeia I missed you on IM thanks for the post i read cindy's post on the junkie that helped maybe in need to just go to sleep.. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]8/25/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 9 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 180 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $27.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 1 [B]Mins:[/B] 9 [B]Seconds:[/B] 6
16 years ago 0 3207 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
doodles do u have im? I'm on there if u can get there. Triggers...what has happened differently? Your husband smoking, yes. But, it is YOUR quit, so it doesnt matter if he smokes or not. I hope you are looking at this quit as something you want to do, as a gift you are giving yourself. You are not missing anything good. As you said earlier, you felt sorry for him. I have done this quit with my son smoking in the house. Doesn't bother me a bit, other than it makes me cough. It is not his quit, it is mine. Other triggers? Sundays? Use your coping strategies....water, distractions, pamper yourself...take a nice long shower or bath. Watch a movie, go to sleep. Just don't smoke. Period. Please do not throw away these beautiful 9, almost 10, days -aloha [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]3/22/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 165 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 6,600 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1,122.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 23 [B]Hrs:[/B] 2 [B]Mins:[/B] 34 [B]Seconds:[/B] 57
16 years ago 0 695 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
what is my problem.. I read Allan Carr's book this weekened.. I was so gung hoo until today. Watching my husband smoke has not helped, either. Encouraging word or words please............ [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]8/25/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 9 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 180 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $27.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 1 [B]Mins:[/B] 6 [B]Seconds:[/B] 31

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