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17 years ago 0 983 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Just wanted to say my thoughts and prayers are with you. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and be kind to yourself. Your grieving and this process runs it's own course. Do what ever you need to to take care of yourself..and remember, smoking won't bring this boy back. Take care.... [IMG]http://i136.photobucket.com/albums/q185/kaitilina/2angels.jpg[/IMG] Kaiti [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 42 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 932 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $231 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 3 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 42 [B]Seconds:[/B] 28
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Wishing you and your loved ones strength with all my heart. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/19/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 25 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 256 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $125 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 2 [B]Hrs:[/B] 8 [B]Mins:[/B] 50 [B]Seconds:[/B] 13
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Lady, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very hard time. When you are ready we are here with welcome arms hon. ((((((((hugs of support and compassion)))))))))) Monica58 [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/31/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 44 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 894 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $396 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 4 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 8 [B]Seconds:[/B] 28
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I have nothing to add, Lady, except my own good thoughts, wishes, and respect for the way you respond to tragedy. You do us all proud, and I hope Christmas is as kind to you as it can be. peteg
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lady, my thoughts and prayers are with you glad you have your family with you peace and love lynnexx [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/24/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 61 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 922 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �244 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 6 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 53 [B]Seconds:[/B] 13
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17 years ago 0 738 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Dearest Lady, You held my hand when I needed it, so please, take mine now and I'll hold yours. My husband and I just went through much the same thing with a dear friend's son, killed by his best friend who was drunk and driving several of the gang home. He is now in prison and has to live with the fact that he killed his best friend. Only God can know what the good of all that is, but perhaps he had some need for our two wonderful young men. Please take all the YOU time you need, none of us feel abandoned at all. You have always been here for everyone else, and now it's our turn to be there for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Oh, and when was the last time you gave yourself a reward? Even in these times, or especially in these times, it's so very important to give yourself rewards. A very wise Lady told me that... Denise [IMG]http://i131.photobucket.com/albums/p300/DeeKaySss/Bigeyeswingparrot.gif[/IMG] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/16/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 60 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,818 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $450 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 7 [B]Hrs:[/B] 1 [B]Mins:[/B] 42 [B]Seconds:[/B] 11
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Dearest Lady, My thoughts and prayers are with you and the other family, too. We have had much the same circumstances and it does indeed take fortitude for all involved. We don't know what to say, and they don't either, but we saw him the other day and just said our prayers are with you and we are here if you want us. He cried and hugged us, said "every one seems to be moving on, but I can't." So I know where you are. But maybe you could pick up that phone and talk to your friend, just to tell her you are there for her? That you are thinking of her, that you love her, and that you miss him too? I doubt that she has moved on from there this soon. And there are clinical, specific stages of grieving everyone goes through. And every loved one lost reminds us of those others we've lost. It's human and understandable and you need to be where you are. There are no right or wrong feelings. They just are what they are. Feelings. With love, Denise [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/16/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 70 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,105 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $525 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 8 [B]Hrs:[/B] 4 [B]Mins:[/B] 38 [B]Seconds:[/B] 2
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Lady I am so sorry for what you, your friend and your family are going through. Now is not the time for you to take care of us.......it's our turn to take care of you. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Take care! Windy [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/11/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 94 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,898 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $470 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 9 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 7 [B]Seconds:[/B] 31
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Thanks for sharing, Lady. Best regards, nmc [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/25/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 111 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,119 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $555 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 20 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 52 [B]Seconds:[/B] 53
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Lady, My heart goes out to you during this difficult and painful time, but know that you and your family are in my prayers. You continue to be an inspiration for all of us. Maria [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/6/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 99 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,194 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $396 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 11 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 23 [B]Seconds:[/B] 10

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