Dear Alley, Dont worry to much about your hubby, If he loves and understands you he will let what you saygo straight over his head.Its hard for anybody who has never had an adiction, but hes one of the lucky ones. If I can be honest with you . I think hes acting a little bit childish, he should be with you 100% in this hellish quest, god knows its hard enough, you dont need the added stress of a grown man behaving like a child, You keep going girl , in the right direction, smoke free. Mikomi.