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I agree, talking ease pain...
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So true. I never used to talk about the way I felt - I couldn't see any way that it could change things and that I could only get out by thinking my way out (round and round and up and down..). Also wouldn't people have better things to do than listen to my crap?? This period of depression forced me to but when I started I didn't really know how. As a male and learning from a Dad who doesn't it was very difficult. I still struggle about some stuff but I think it's an ongoing process that gets easier the more you practise. I'm still learning to talk about how I really feel and really get in there. I guess that's where a good therapist comes in. I'm lucky that I have some good friends and family who will listen. And listen. And listen. To a lot of the same stuff. Again. And again. And be logical and pragmatic in their advice. And I've got closer to people - by me opening up to them, they've opened up to me. I really believe the more people you talk to the better. Though you learn who the best ones are. On a slight downside listening to lots of different and conflicting advice and trying to decide what to act upon creates a lot of anxiety for me. I'm indecisive and confused enough with just my own suggestions....:) But overall talking really helps. It literally has saved my life.
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Myth: Talking about depression only makes it worse. Fact: Talking through feelings may help you feel better and family and friends understand you better. Talking about your depression and feelings is a sign that you are ready to deal with your depression and learn how to live a happy, healthy life. So talk, talk, talk….. Josie

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