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Hi wildcat Good recovery! What set you off, do you think? Too many negatives at once? It's a bit funny, isn't it, to look back and be able to tick off every one of the cognitive distortions? Well, funny sometimes -- there are times when it just makes me grumpy to be so predictable, lol. You regained your perspective really quickly -- well done! Sounds like there was even a positive outcome at work. Re the lice: Best way to get rid of lice without insecticide is to put a ton of conditioner on your child's hair and comb it through thoroughly with a nit comb. The conditioner makes the hair too slippery for the lice to hang on, so they just comb out. The eggs are still there, though, so you have to repeat this every 7 days for at least 2 weeks (lice eggs hatch 7 - 10 days after they're laid). A couple of drops of tea tree oil in the shampoo seems to help as a defense. My girls had lice several times when they were little, and our health visitor recommended this treatment -- it works and is much kinder on the kids. Take care
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hi what a nasty high. I have not been like that in a LL OOONNNNgggg time. acctually beliving in my catastrophic senarios, usually they are vague feelings. no one is mad. and i reminded my boss that she sometimes need to take her own advise and read all out notes in the computer system (not just those from whom she THINKS is involved in an issue). It was a really busy day day and my friend was sighing because she had several problems on her hands that she had trouble resolving. she was not upset with my e-mails (that were probably my request for help???). My friend spoke to another person about an issue because the other was already involved - not because she did not to be my friend. the daycare does not believe i am running a lice farm. Tiamats whole group is INFESTED!! and the educators are frustrated with the situation and the logistics of not contaminating the whole service. The nurse does not know that my son's stomach is easily upset and when he has a cold all the secretions automatically make him nausious. all she knows is that boys are less -prone- to stomach ailments. and those who were against my using the office's server are always against advancing tecnologically. i say white the go black. i turn right they want left. i hate the huge machine that scans/prints/faxes the love it (till it broke). It is not me! it is just that after 30 years with the cie and doing things their way they resist change. i am better perth. thanks for the reply.
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hey wildcat, ..and I like your humor .. :) being serious: is it possible that you 'overgeneralize' as our current topic says? tomorrow is another day ... hope you'll feel better soon !
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hi gang, i am miserable. the daycare thinks i have a lice farm in my home and i am distributing free samples to alllll the kids. the nurse and the clsc thinks i am negelecting my son beacause i am not worried about his 4 days old stomachach. the psy at my son's school finished her evaluation and Tigre has a totally normal intelligence but is very afective and his slowness in learning comes from his emotional baggage (from us...ME). everyone is mad at me at work. they all thought i can't do the basics of my work. that i missed sending a notice on a questional client that their funds were received and not to worry about them. they are upset that i want to stick everything on the server and make the stone-aged workers learn a bit of the computer. they think i am a crazy-granola-nature-nut and that a few sheets of paper a day will make no difference to the company and to the environment. they,they the are all worried about me now since the boss drove me home. i couldn't get all of this under controle and asked permission to leave. my boss is an emotional woman and didn't want to risk me making a bad judgement at 100kn/hr on the elevated expressway. she likes my car.

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