Negative thought: My ex is going to hate me for this and make me feel bad
Situation: My ex walked out on me Dec 31. with mixed emotions about coming back or not. I have had no contact with him up until two days ago, and he is still not giving me a straight answer. Today he was coming by to pick up his mail. So, I prepared a document for him to sign, saying that as of this date _________ he will no longer be residing at the current address, and that I will solely take responsability of the lease.
1. Because I am giving him a no say in the situation, and asking him to pls remove his things asap.
2. This may be exactly what he wants.
3. It would be that he won't sign the paper, give me some kind of excuse, that he has no where to put his things. I would tell him that he has family, and they can store his belonings until he finds a place to live.
4. That he will sign the paper, and get the rest of his things so I can work on myself and continue with my new life.
5. That he will not sign the paper, and drag it on. I probably would agree with him because I feel sorry for him.
6. That I have to remain positive, and put aside his needs because mine now come first.
7. I would tell her to keep her chin up, and take a step forward.
8. The effect of believing in this negative thought, gives me courage to face the what might come of the situation.
9. I believe that I wouldn't have had the courage to compose the letter for him to sign.
10. I don't know if there are any alternatives.