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10 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thanks so much for posting maddferit! Love to hear success stories like yours.

How does it feel to be in control of this?

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10 years ago 0 7 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I also forgot probably the main one. Reading this website. This website helped me probably the most. The step by step stages were massive for me at the beginning. After this I went on to reading the forums and I would use the search bar to search for absolutely anything and I would always find one old, dusty forum which would be key to helping me. Using the search bar was the best idea I think I had during it all. 

Thought I'd definitely add that in ! 

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10 years ago 0 7 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I don't know if anything that helped me will help any other but of course i'll give them a mention!

Firstly I took some time off work as I'd been overworking myself into an early grave. I didn't stay too long off work, just enough to re-evaluate my priorities. I drank a lot of tea, but none with caffeine! I mostly drank chamomile and rooibos as I found them pretty relaxing and they'd help me clear out my head. I also found exercise a great way way to get rid of all the adrenaline that would build up from the panic attacks. The hardest part, which I still have difficulty with occasionally, is the blistering head aches I would get. They would completely fog my vision and would make me really depressed. But the best way I found to deal with this was by drinking lots of water and repeating a Stephen Fry quote to myself  (http://www.lettersofnote.com/2009/10/it-will-be-sunny-one-day.html). I know that might not help some people but his view on emotions really helped me control mine. Also my big brother suffered from panic attacks nearly 10 years ago and he helped me whenever things became far too much.

Apart from things that helped, I also found avoiding certain things helped equally. Such as not drinking excessively. At the start I stopped drinking for a few weeks actually because the hangovers were so mentally bad. It's also better to stop yourself from working anymore than 50 a week I would say for the first part, because I was a workaholic before it all happened. I stopped smoking on nights out as well, because that would have a long effect on me for at least a week. At the beginning as well I watched the amount of sugar I was eating because I would heavily crash after meals and it would make me anxious.

Other than physical things I would say that the journey for me was mostly mental. It genuinely is like having a hijacked mind, and you have to reel it back in towards your own possession. The best way I found to do this was to think when I was at my lowest that I would come back from this. Even if it was for days or 2 weeks straight of heavy attacks I would try and remember that it could never be permanent. 

 I really do hope this helps others. However, a lot of it I think is based on the person and their attitudes and I wouldn't be surprised if someone read this and thought "wow, well absolutely none of that helps.."

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10 years ago 0 85 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Maddferrit
It's always nice to read a success story
Can you share some of the things that helped you on your journey?
10 years ago 0 7 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I came back on to the website today after a long time and I was looking at some success stories and remembered how they had kept me hopeful during some pretty dark points.

But yeah, I think everything has worked out well. Its been about 8 months since I had my first panic attack and rarely ever get one. I've been working full time and when my heads busy I never tend to even think about panic anymore. Of course I still get the odd throwback but it tends to be okay after a week or two and I believe in a year I'll be essentially 100% my old self. This website really has helped me when I was convinced I had a tumor, cancer, was going mad or all of the above mixed in.

This week has probably been my toughest week since I stopped getting daily panic attacks and it's mostly because I was drinking far too much at parties last week. But it's a good sign more than a bad, because I can control it and this feels like a breeze compared to what I was months ago. Plus, to all the teenagers on this that shows you that in a few months you can go back to drinking 8 days a week!

But I'd like to thank everyone that helped, especially Davit who was a guru on this when I would read through forums.. I may be back yet but for now I'm comfortably happy.

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