Denisey,
It always kills me when I see someone post that their spouse doesn't give a crap about them, their quit, their own health, etc, due to this wretched addiction. The fact that there are smoking spouses who refuse to at least step outside to feed their addiction speaks volumes about their ignorance.
I realize that divorcing someone because they refuse to smoke outside is probably not sufficient grounds, but man, oh man, what does that really tell you about the smoker? What does it tell you about where you sit in their priority list? I'll tell you where.. Number 2 behind their cigarettes, that's where. Not a pretty place to be, but many here seem perfectly happy to accept that place.
The only recourse you have is to ignore him and his smoking. I know.. easier said than done, but also realize he has a weakness that you no longer have. You have made the decision to break free from this addiction and I applaud you. Lead by example and show him what being quit is all about. You can do this. We are here for you.
Best wishes.
[b][color=Green]Be Strong. Be Smart. Be Quit.[/color]
[color=black]Joe[/color]
[size=3][color=Blue]Knowledge Replaces Fear[/color][/size]
[size=2][color=black]Illegitimus non carborundum est[/color][/size][/b]
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/15/2005
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 249
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 6,233
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $610.05
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 43 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 16 [B]Seconds:[/B] 6
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$36,342.40
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Days: 9770
Hours: 21
Minutes: 23
Seconds: 25
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45428
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