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Topic: The Stress Response and Role Transition


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Heck, I don't transition well from daytime to nighttime, let alone major life transitions!
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I moved 7 times in the first 8 years of my life. Then my parents got divorced. Then my dad got remarried to a woman who had 2 children. I had to go to my dad's every two weekends where he was rarely home and my stepmom took care of me. Me and her did not get along. Once I was a teenager I refused to go. My brother moved out of my mom's when I was in my early teens. Then my mom got remarried. We moved into a nice house, I loved it. Then my mom seperated. We moved out into an appartment. Then she went back to him. I met my hubby and I moved out with him 6 months later and have a major nervous breakdown soon after....Anyway, you get the point lol...
 
My hubby has been nice enough to move me only once in 12 years together. It was to move in to our lovely little first house. I love my house even though it is a mess. It is home and it is mine and I intend to stay here.
 
I don'T transition well. And I have had tons of transitions to deal with. But I survive, I deal, I cope badly. I am up to tips on this stuff lol!
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Coming from a military family, I've dealt with a lot of change.  Changed schools every couple of years, sometimes less then that.  Though it was never a problem. 
 
There was always the initial anxiety when I went to a new school/place, but I just made friends and settled into the new place like it was home.  Kinda odd, the real coping mechanism for myself is to let go.  Distract myself until I've forgotten the problem, then come back at a later time with a fresh attitude.  If it's really a problem, a reason will come up to remind you of it.  If it's nothing, then you get to forget about it and move on.
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Members,
Depression is associated with a number of specific problems with the balance of a number of specific neurotransmitters as well as physical, behavioral and psychological symptoms. It makes sense that the chemistry of the brain is changed in depression. We now know that the body and the brain are tied together. How we feel, think and behave are all related to changes in chemicals in the brain.
Perhaps more importantly, it seems that experiencing depression actually changes how the brain responds to stress. It seems that once a person has had one episode of depression, their brain shows an exaggerated stress response to relatively minor stressors. In other words, while the initial episode of depression may be triggered by a major negative life event, later episodes of depression may be triggered by a minor negative life event. Perhaps this is why depression can often become a chronic problem.
 
Role transitions (major changes in your life) often trigger later episodes of depression. All of our lives involve stress and transitions that present us with both challenges and opportunities. One of the best ways to combat future episodes of depression is to anticipate situations in which you are likely to become depressed in the future (transitions) and do some planning for how you are going to cope. 
How do you deal with change?   Sylvie, Bilingual Health Educator

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