momkoop,
Thank you for sharing with us today. First of all talk to your doctor about your medications, and what effects you and how. You also need to be honest in what your concerns and questions are. Your husband is there for you and wants to help, but attacking him will not help either of you. Your husband is welcome to our site for support and help, just as you are.
Try our Panic Program to help you through your journey. We also have an anxiety test that you can take and bring to your doctor. This will help better assess the situation for the two of you. Also ask your physician about support groups or counselling groups in your area.
Please know we are always here for you. Our online support group is wonderful. They are full of knowledge and support.
Hope this helps,
Josie