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Activities that give you a sense of accomplishment


12 years ago 0 272 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Sue,
 
If you want to learn to knit, go for it.   It's actually not hard to learn the basics.   I first took a class from a local wool shop.   Most wool shops have learn to knit, and learn to crochet classes.   So if you have a local wool store, check with them about classes.   A great book that I love is "Knitting for Dummies"  it was the first knitting book I bought, and it helped me learn some neat stitch patterns that made interesting designs, when I was still in my scarf knitting phase.    There's also on-line tutorials, a good site is knittinghelp.com   But really I find classes work best for me, because I can see what's being demonstrated and get help if I don't understand it.   I bet that now you've stopped / cut back on your drinking, you'll find you have a lot more free time on your hands, and knitting is a great way to occupy that time.
 
splitimage
12 years ago 0 82 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
oh "splitimage"... I'm so happy for you, and jealous!! I want to knit, I have tons of wool and books, and my mother was an avid knitter. She could knit even in her 80's and she was blind! :)
12 years ago 0 10 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I am going back to nursing after being involved in medical device sales for the last 8 years. This means Im going back to a learning state, and its funny but as Im working through the process, Im getting excited, scared, but excited.
Task wise: Im also going to clean out the linen cupboard, and have rearranged all the art work in my house.
Recovery focused: I did a big clear out and donated a lot of stuff to an addict in recovery friend of mine who has just got her kids back from child youth and family care and had nothing. Hubbie wasnt too happy as I could have sold them on line but oh well, I feel better about it.
Personally : Its coming up to summer here so hopefully will have some barbequeues, as Im redundant cant do much as were tight on money so will have to enjoy the simple things in life.
12 years ago 0 1853 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Splitimage,
 
What a great hobby to pass the time and perfect your skills.  It will be a cozy, warm winter for loved ones around you! 

Vincenza, Health Educator
12 years ago 0 272 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Ashley,
 
One activity that I love, because it gives me both a sense of pleasure and accomplishment is knitting.   Since getting sober, I've seriously expanded my knitting skills, and I'm having a blast.  
 
I first learned to knit back in 2007, when I was on a psych ward at CAMH, and I started with a simple scarf.   Basically I just kept knitting scarves with different patterns and colours up until last winter.   Then I decided I wanted to learn to knit round things, so I took a class on how to knit a beret and learned about knitting in the round and increasing and decreasing.
 
From there it was off to the races - I've subsequently learned how to knit shawls using different stitches, cowls with a kind of lacy pattern in them, fingerless gloves, and my latest adventure mitts.   Everyone is getting hand knitted Christmas presents this year.   It's also great because it's something I can do in the evening that takes some concentration, and my evenings were always my drinking time, so having something to do instead is a major tool for me in staying sober.
 
splitimage
12 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Members,
 
Some people make a distinction between activities that bring pleasure and activities that give a sense of accomplishment. Some activities are performed for pure pleasure such as going to a movie, taking a bubble bath, wiggling toes in the sand or basking in the sun. Other activities aren’t so pleasant to do but when you finish them you feel good because you get a sense of accomplishment or control over a situation.

For example, cleaning the kitchen floor or tidying up a closet may not be exactly “fun,” but you can feel “good” or “better” after having done a small job because you can feel like you have accomplished something.

Over the next several weeks we are going to ask you to do some experimenting by doing things that may provide a sense of pleasure or accomplishment. Again, all we ask is that you try it and see what happens.

If you’re having some trouble coming up with some activities that will give you a sense of accomplishment, here’s a list that will get you started:

Donating to a good cause
Passing a test
Planning a trip or vacation
Making a piece of Art
Redecorating
Rearranging furniture
Learning something new
Learning how to fix something
Doing the dishes
Writing something well
Saying something well
Making other people happy
 
Ashley, Health Educator

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