Welcome Barbara, glad to have you with us. Thanks, David! I will definitely pledge with you when I can. I've read some of your other posts and know your goal is abstinence. I am currently trying to abstain for a period of time but may attempt to moderate in the future, so I'll be honest with you with the days I plan to drink. I'm going to try to plan ahead and limit myself on those days (e.g. 1 glass of wine with dinner). Anyway, I hope that we can still stand strong together despite our different long term goals. I may eventually choose to abstain altogether as well.