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8 years ago 0 6252 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Ashley

We know I don't always follow the path, curiosity often drags me off. 

So too with worry. What I do is different. And this is just what I do, I don't know if anyone else can do this. 
Worry is having too many answers or not any. A decision is needed. 

I change worry to concern. With concern you give the thought one answer and one answer only and stick to it and move on. Like getting on the bus. A definite concern and you can worry till you are home again or you can say "I'm going to do it and see how it goes" One answer. You may find once on the bus you have another concern. Give it only one answer too.

This works for me but then I'm recovered so it may be easier for me.

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Bumping up this thread today. Enjoy :)
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There are a number of CBT techniques that are commonly used to help people challenge worry including: thought records, thought stopping, worry time, challenging the value of worry, problem solving, experiments to increase intolerance of uncertainty and cognitive exposure. Let’s take a look at them one at a time:

Experiments to build tolerance of uncertainty: Uncertainty tends to increase our anxiety and anxiety tends to reduce our tolerance for uncertainty. People who worry a lot tend to be more anxious and less tolerant of uncertainty compared to people who do not worry. One way to think about this is that change and uncertainty is always a double-edged sword. In times of uncertainty there is always risk (threat) as well as opportunity (challenge). When faced with uncertainty, most people who worry a little can see both the risk (threat) in the situation as well as the opportunity (challenge). Unfortunately, people who worry see only the threat and no the opportunity. One way to challenge your intolerance of uncertainty is to always ask yourself “What is the risk or threat here?” but don’t forget to ask “What is the opportunity?”
 
Another way to challenge worry (the “What if…?”) is to try to increase your tolerance for uncertainty. This can be done either by conducting experiments to see what happens or using the exposure techniques that are described in the Panic Program. The first step is to figure out what behaviors you do to reduce your worry. For example, many people who worry need to do things the same way all of the time, do a lot of checking, or need to constantly ask for reassurance from family friends and doctors. One way to think about these behaviors is that when you do them, they reduce your anxiety for a little while but only until you have the same worry again. The trick is to challenge the behavior, experience the uncertainty and an increase in anxiety and then not do the same thing, or check or ask for reassurance and see what happens.
 
Does this strategy work for you?


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