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14 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi!

Hi Sunny,
 
I am very sorry about your friend and grandson. Terminal illness is very difficult to deal with.  It sounds like you are using a lot of very good coping strategies. Members, any other suggestions?
 
Do you talk to anyone else about this grieving process?  A therapist or grief counselor?
 
You are right it is important to stay healthy and you should be proud of yourself for working so hard to stay healthy.
 
We will always be here to listen and help you through this.
 
Stay strong,
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
What next

Hi Zoe!
 
You should feel very proud of yourself for accomplishing so much these last few days.  Also, it is great that you want to continue to improve and continue to push yourself.
 
Have you talked to a counselor of someone who can take you through exposure therapy? You may find this very helpful for you.
 
It would be beneficial for you  to try to get outside once a day, even if it just for 5 minutes.  Is there anywhere close to you that you like to go?  Could you possibly plan small trips throughout the week to go to places you enjoy going?  Try to make a list of every place you can go and try working your way down that list.
 
Members, any suggestions?
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Is face to face therapy as good as online therapy?

Hi members,

A recent article on CNN.com discusses a study which tested the effectiveness of online CBT therapy in helping individuals who have depression. The results were very interesting. According to the research, at the four month mark, 38% of the individuals recovered from their depression. That is about the same success rate as would be expected from face to face therapy.   This research is very positive; many people who may not have access to face to face therapy or who feel uncomfortable discussing mental health issues face to face can now be confident in the choice of online therapy.   I encourage members to read more at http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/08/31/online.internet.therapy.cbt/index.html

Members, what are your thoughts? As participants of an online behavior change program, do you feel it has helped you? Do you prefer this site as opposed to meeting with someone face to face? Do you feel that the results would be the same if individuals with panic were studied instead of individuals with depression? Please share.
 
Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
reached my goal!!!

Sunny,
 
Reading your post brought tears to my eyes.  You are so right.  There are so many beautiful things in this world and I am so happy you are able to see that.  Many people are not.  Truely beautiful, thank you for sharing.
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
New Ask the Expert in HWC our sister site

Hi members,
 
There is a new Ask the Expert up this month in the Healthy Weight Center!  In this month's Ask the Expert Dr. Binks discusses the relationship between exercise and our mental well being.  Take a look it is an interesting read: http://www.healthyweightcenter.net/Expert/AskTheExpert.aspx
 
What are your thoughts?
 
Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
What should I do?

Hi Neeners,
 
First of all I would like to congratulate you on doing so well this far.  You were nervous to go overseas yet you still did it.  You are a very strong individual and I don't want you to forget that.
 
The thing about any mental illness is that it needs to be managed.  Mental Health cannot be cured it has to be maintained.  Individuals with panic need to maintain a healthy lifestyle and a lot of this is stress management.  As I am sure you are aware stress can worsen and even trigger a panic attack.  Most people who experience panic first notice symptoms when they are going through a stressful period in their lives. That being said, being alone and away from loved ones is certainly a stressful environment.  People need people, humans are social creatures and need interaction for emotional support, leisure, self worth etc., etc., etc.  It seems clear that this lack of social contact compounded by the stress of starting a new job in a new country triggered your panic to worsen.  Now you need to focus on getting happy and healthy again. This does not mean you need to give up your goals and aspirations it just means you need to put your health first.
 
Although some people do not take mental illness as seriously as other illnesses the truth is they are just as serious if not more so.  I would talk to you doctor about this.  Is there an option for taking a disability leave?  You would have to look into that.  You have to feel ready to go back to work.
 
If that is not an option you will need to way the pros and cons and make a choice.  Are there things you could do to make your situation better?  What were you doing or thinking differently when you were away and were not experiencing panic?  What is the first step you can take to improve your mental health?
 
I recommend seriously thinking about these questions and perhaps keeping a thought journal.  There you will be able to track your feelings and potentially pin point triggers and irrational thoughts. 
 
We will find a solution together.  You can overcome this hurdle with flying colours.  Take some time each day to look for solutions but also reward yourself and take time to meditate, exercise, spend time with loved ones and relax.  You deserve it and your body needs it.
 
Keep posting!
 
Members, any advice?
 
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
The problem with avoidance

Members,

When we avoid things due to anxiety, we miss out. As you probably already know, escaping the situation you find yourself in when you have a anxiety can lead to problems.

  • Problem 1: Some situations are more difficult to avoid than others. For instance, if you have a fear of snakes but you live in the city, it’s probably not a huge cause for concern. Chances are you’ll only be exposed to them at the zoo or pet store. However, if a person fears wide open spaces, crowds, shopping malls or riding in public transportation it can cause a much bigger problem.
  • Problem 2: Escaping & avoiding situations works well to reduce anxiety in the short-term. However, in the long-term avoidance makes things worse. The problem is that escaping works too well. When you escape a situation, you receive immediate relief. The result is you become really good at escaping and avoiding. When you think about it, not dealing with problems isn’t what you want to be good at.
What are your thoughts?
 
Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Exposure for Taking the Bus

 

Members,

Do you struggle with anxiety? Today we will be looking at sample exposure plans to help you overcome your fears.

If you fear taking the bus:

* Walk to a bus stop, sit on a bench and watch the buses and traffic

* Go to the bus stop and ride for one stop. Sit near the door or window. Walk back to the first stop and repeat for 1 hour.

* Repeat the previous step but for two stops.

* Repeat the previous step but for five stops. Then cross the street and ride the bus that will bring you back to your original stop.

* Repeat the previous step but sit at the back of the bus or far from the door.

* Repeat the previous step but on a different bus.

* Repeat the previous step but go to the mall or another destination

Is riding the bus a big fear of yours?

Ashley, Health Educator

14 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
The problem with avoidance 2

Members,
When we avoid things due to anxiety, we miss out. As you probably already know, escaping the situation you find yourself in when you have anxiety can lead to problems.
  • Problem 3: The more you avoid, the less you’re able to lead a full, happy and productive life. As a result of escaping and avoiding, you don’t get to do a lot of things other people get to enjoy such as, going out with friends, driving, going to a movie or going away of vacation.
  • Problem 4: When people aren’t able to enjoy life because of avoidance, they beat themselves up. People with panic or anxiety usually say escaping makes them feel better in the short-term but worse in the long-term. The end result is negative thoughts about themselves, the world and the future. This can lead to depression.
How has anxiety impacted your life?
 
Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 11216 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Fear of Flying - Difficult Exposure

Hi Ariel,
 
Thank you for sharing. All of your questions and concerns are valid and it will take time to answer some of them.   Also, although you cannot work on taking a plane ride right now you can still work on your fear through visualization.  If you can work on feeling comfortable about thinking of flying and visualizing yourself on a plane that is the first step to feeling comfortable with actually flying.  Learn to manage your anxiety and panic any work you can do in this area will help.
 
The program will be a great help to. Keep working at it.  You are off to a great start!  What are your next goals for the next few weeks?  Remember it is ok to start very small.
 
Members, please add to the discussion.  What are things you are going to do to address this anxiety? 
 
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator